Category: Let's talk
While having lunch in the pub I got talking to this guy of around 50+ your man proceded to brag about this very psychologically damaged 19 yr old girl,he wants to have sex with. This girl is failing to cope with a number of deep seated problems and is clearly very unstable and vulnerable. When I pointed out where he was going wrong, he laughed.I am now waiting for news of the girl's attempted suicide due to his selfish ignorant predatory behaviour.
Oh my gosh. That's awful. People can be so ignorant and sick. What an asshole. Does this girl happen to be a friend of yours?
wow well hmm if ya meet the girl do what needs to be done you should have done something me myself i would have kicked his ass but i have a short fuse and well yeah live by impulse alone
I'd have done nothing. Don't know what this girls problems are, and I don't particularly desire to. However, anyone with common sense would steer clear of psychologically damaged people who go on about it all the time.
agreed with wayne.
Gemini and Metallica I agree however, I love the pub and why should I incur a ban over his ignorance.But when he said you poor unfortunate soul to my face I was tempted to deck him. I haven't met the girl but if she does come in to Failte, we will have a quiet word.
Well Bd you have changed your tune since you came crawling to me for help..
That's sick. I would have decked him myself. He's got no rite.
Seriously what business is it of yours if this guy fucks her or not? It seems to me that people do what they want and no matter how well meaning you might be there's no reason to get involved. If she's a friend of yours, that's a clearly different story. But, of course it seems like all I see onhere are your posts where you stick your nose in where it doesn't belong, or have outrageous views on things. But I guess for other small attributes, you use your "sensitivity", as a coping mechanism.
My god! that's just so wrong, believe it or not, there are men out there who really get off on this kind of thing, and it's a good thing that there are people around who actually give a damn for others. Goblin, i hope you get the chance to say something to her, because that's just wrong. it makes me so angry and sick at the same time.
Well, I do believe it's sick, and that bugs me, but at the same time, if she isn't a friend of yours, you really have no reason to get involved, the only way you could even justify getting involved is if you know the person that wanted to do this, or the girl.
Jess your right but I just feel angry that she is being used for this bastard's sexual satisfaction.{Sorry for the language}. He is soo smug when he mentions her and there is no hint of respect or even affection,from him to this girl its just sickening. Galileo believe me I would try my best but from what I know, she just puts up the walls and closes off.The tragic thing is, she is desperate for attention and is confusing his predatory behaviour with honest sincerity.
Mv yet again your wrong jeez I've lost count of how often..Its my business because she is vulnerable, and at the risk of being melodramatic, if she says no there is always the danger that he will not listen! Then what eh? I am trying to protect her from a selfish eejit who sees destroying vulnerable young women as his given right!.
she has to learn the hard way...she can't learn if people are always coming to her rescue.
If we all had to learn the hard way then i can garentee that there would be a lot of unhappy people in the world. even more than there are today. BD, where do you draw the line? how old do you have to be? how much shit do you have to get yourself into? like it or not, some people can't help what happens to them, she may have a mental health problem or something close to that. Sadly, it's an ever present occurance in todays world that people who have such issues are not getting the help that they desperately need. This is because of, in my opinion, the lack of education in todays society, sure, they tell us in school how to use condoms, what drugs will do to our bodies and what to do in case of sexual harrassment, but what they still don't teach us is what to do if we, or our friends have mental health problems or suicidal tendancies. Goblin, i don't know what it's like in scotland, but this is the case in sydney.
Sadly, out of the many of young people who leave school and sometimes home between the ages of 12 and 17, only about 5% of them actually live lives of relative normality, IE they get a job, educate themselves in some way or another and eventually rent their own place. As for the other 95%, they are hardpressed not to end up on the streets with massive drug adictions, pregnant, in potentially harmful relationships, and with criminal records or perhaps selling themselves on the streets for cash to support any number of adictions. And you wonder why this is? in many cases it's because no one thought to lend a helping hand when it would have made a difference. perhaps noone even noticed. I've seen it happen time and time again, it's depressing. There's only so much we can do though.
Ok, rant over.
Galileo I agree, and I have to ask that eejit what positive lessons would any women learn from rape! Galileo you have described Scotland to a tee the comparisions are quite frightening.